Friday, December 15, 2006

Child is a Teacher of MAN

Just the other day as we walked down the railway platform to fetch my brother and his family, we realised what we had habitually done for years could have such an impact on a little mind of my three year old

A old haggard man with leprosy was begging there and we walked past him and he was persistant...
the little one tugged at his papa and said give me a coin appa....i need to give it to him. but we had none since we had used all coins to buy the platform ticket at the machine outside. We tried to explain that and he wouldnt budge. He said i need a coin to give it to this man.

It then occured to us that this kid had been observing our actions so closely than we ever anticipated. We were shocked and proud at the same time. Of course though the feeling of proudness at the child's giving attitude was definitely misplaced since he followed it as a rule rather than anything akin to sharing or philanthropy.

We were in the habit of doling out coins at the traffic lights and on the beach while walking with the kid. He had seen the action so many times, doing it himself sometimes, aiding it sometimes and come to think of it as a thing to do. We never gave it a thought. Today, it dawned on us as to how true the statement was that child is like a sponge observing and absorbing whatever we say and do.

7 comments:

Nagesh Kumar said...

Mamatha,
You are absolutely spot-on, on on this one subject.
The young impressionalble minds need nurturing, cultivating and imbiing self-worth and true human values. Which is all the more reason for us to be ever so vigilant and careful baout what we do or say...One can't be too careful with this generation kids...
And Thanks for leaving a small but succint comment on my blog...In fact I edited and played around with the words after you read and left...See if you want to read about other earlier travel entries, bhajans etc in the same blog

Bye...

Nagesh Kumar said...

Sorry, mamatha,
You did not leave your mail Id and so I am writing to you at the wrong place. Please let me know your mail Id . I enjoyed reading some of your posts too.So its become like a mutual admiration society...Know anything about kannada associations, kootas etc In Chennai?
My mail id is nageshkumar_cs@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

Hi Mamatha,

Am Venky. Just I saw your profile in orkut. It leads me here.

Good Afternoon.

When I read this subject, I recollect it from my daughter. yes She does this regularly but she keeps coins ready with her always and ask us to do donations also.

Let us grow our childeren in social responsible way.

Thanks and with wishes
Venky

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Unknown said...

Kids are amazing with their observation and forming opinions without any bias

pradip said...
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Unknown said...

How right you are-No doubts that the old adage "Child is the Father of Man" is absolutely True in every way